The rules nobody wrote down

My kids love Olive Garden – a lot. With an Italian last name like Barranco, I’ll admit I’m slightly embarrassed by how much they love what may be the most generic Italian restaurant in the country. But I keep that to myself and indulge them. Every time we go, I’m reminded of a question I like to ask my students: Why can’t we eat spaghetti with our hands? Sure, it’s fine for a toddler. But an adult…